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We have all known the anxiety that comes with trying to work out whether a crush①shares our feelings.

But the mystery could be at an end, as people who discovered that the object of their affection did feel the same way have revealed the signs that gave it away.

In a new thread on Reddit user newmustard-lover asked fellow Redditors:"What are some signs that someone's into you?"

It wasn't long before coupled-up members came forward with their advice on what to look out for in a potential②suitor③.

Many agreed that body language is hugely important when it comes to working out whether someone likes you.

Several users were in agreement that eye contact was important when deciphering④someone's feelings, however,opinion was divided as to what eye contact meant.

Some said that if a potential date is looking down or struggling to maintain

eye contact then this is a sign

they are into

我们都知道，当我们喜欢一个人的时候，想要知道对方是否也喜欢自己是一件让人倍感头痛的事情。

但是现在这些都将不再是问题了，因为人们已经发现，当出现某些迹象时，就可以确信我们倾慕的对象也抱有和我们一样的感情。

在Reddit上的一个新话题中，那些暗生情愫的情场菜鸟们提问：“对方喜欢你的一些迹象是什么？”

很快，那些得成眷属的人们就来提出了自己的建议，教人们怎么看出别人是否对自己有意思。

许多人都一致认为，想要知道别人是否喜欢你，身体语言很重要。

几名用户都认为，当你想要知道别人是否对你有意思的时候，眼神交流很重要。但是人们在眼神交流到底意味着什么这个问题上分歧很大。

一些人表示，如果你要观察的对象不敢看你的眼睛，或者很努力才能保持和你眼神接触的话，那就说明有戏——但是这一般是男人对女人的印象，反之则不然。

但是，另外一些人则认为，一直保持眼神交流，甚至直勾勾地盯着对方看也说明他们对你很有意思。

一名女性用户表

① crush 英 [krʌʃ] 美 [krʌʃ] n. 粉碎；迷恋；压榨

② potential英 [pəˈtenʃl] 美 [pə'tɛnʃl]

n. 潜能；可能性 adj. 潜在的；可能的

③ suitor英 ['suːtə] 美 ['sʊtɚ] n. 求婚者；请愿者

④ decipher英 [dɪ'saɪfə] 美 [dɪ'saɪfɚ] n. 密电译文 vt. 解释

⑤ typically 英 ['tɪpɪkəlɪ] 美 ['tɪpɪkli] adv. 代表性地；作为特色地

⑥ constant英 ['kɒnst(ə)nt] 美 ['kɑnstənt]

adj. 不变的；恒定的；经常的

⑦ tunnel英 ['tʌnl] 美 ['tʌnl]

n. 隧道；坑道；洞穴通道vt. 挖；在……打开通道

⑧ enthusiasm 英 [ɪn'θjuːzɪæz(ə)m; en-]

美 [ɪn'θuzɪæzəm] n. 热心，热忱，热情