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享受孤独

2018-11-16

时代英语·高三 2018年5期
关键词:讲礼貌苦行僧虚度光阴

I find it wholesome to be alone for the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude. Solitude is not measured by the miles of space that intervene between a man and his fellows. The really diligent student in one of the crowded hives of Cambridge College is as solitary as a dervish in the desert. The farmer can work alone in the field or the woods all day, hoeing or chopping, and not feel lonesome, because he is employed; but when he comes home at night he cannot sit down in a room alone, at the mercy of his thoughts, but must be where he can: see the folks and recreate, and, as he thinks, remunerate himself for his days solitude; and hence he wonders how the student can sit alone in the house all night and most of the day without ennui or the blues; but he does not realize that the student, though in the house, is still at work in his field, and chopping in his woods, as the farmer in his, and in turn seeks the same recreation and society that the latter does, though it may be a more condensed form of it.

我发现人若将大部分时间用于独处,有益身心。与人为伴,即便是挚友,也很快会有厌烦或虚度光阴的感觉。我爱独处,我发现独处是最好的伴侣。独处与否不是由人与人之间的距离来确定。在剑桥大学苦读的学子虽身处蜂巢般拥挤的教室,实际上却和沙漠中的苦行僧一样,是在独处。农人终日耕于田间,伐于山野,此时他虽孤身一人但并不孤独,因他专心于工作;但待到日暮而息时,他却未必能忍受形影相吊,仅有思绪做伴的时光,他必到“可以看见大伙儿”的地方去找乐子,如他所认为的那样,以补偿白日里的孤独;因此他无法理解学子如何能昼夜独坐而不心生厌倦或倍感凄凉;然而他沒意识到,学子虽身在学堂,但仍旧心系劳作,耕于心田,伐于学林,这正和农人一样,学子在寻求的无非是和他一样的快乐与陪伴,只是形式更简洁罢了。

I have a great deal of company in my house, especially in the morning, when nobody calls. Let me suggest a few comparisons, that some one may convey an idea of my situation. I am no more lonely than the loon in the pond that laughs so loud, or than the lake. What company has that lonely lake, I pray?

我的房子里有很多伙伴,尤其是在无人造访的清晨。我把自己和周围事物对比一下,你或许能窥见我生活的一斑。比起那湖中高声长鸣的潜鸟,还有那湖,我并不比它们孤独。我想着这孤单的湖又何以为伴呢?

Society is commonly too cheap. We meet at very short intervals, not having had time to acquire any new value for each other. We meet at meals three times a day, and give each other a new taste of that old musty cheese that we are. We have had to agree on a certain set of rules, called etiquette and politeness, to make this frequent meeting tolerable and that we need not come to open war. We meet at the post-office, and at the sociable, and about the fireside every night; we live thick and are in each others way, and stumble over one another, but I think that we thus lose some respect for one another. Certainly less frequency would suffice for all important and hearty communications. Consider the girls in a factory—never alone, hardly in their dreams. It would be better if there were but one inhabitant to a square mile, as where I live.

与人交往通常都因唾手可得而毫无价值。在频繁的交往中,我们无暇从彼此获取新的价值。我们每日三餐都相聚,展现给彼此的也是依旧如故的自己,并无新奇之处。为了在这些频繁的接触中相安无事,无须论战而有辱斯文,我们要循规蹈矩,这被称为懂礼仪,讲礼貌。我们相遇在邮局,邂逅在社交场所,每晚围坐在炉火旁。我们交情甚笃,彼此搅扰着,羁绊着,但我认为这样我们都或多或少失去了对彼此的尊重。对于所有重要的倾心交流,偶尔的相聚足以。想想工厂里的女孩,她们虽从不落单,但也少有梦想。如果可以,像我这样方圆一英里仅一人居住会更好。

And yet it has not the blue devils, but the blue angels in it, in the azure tint of its waters. The sun is alone, except in thick weather, when there sometimes appear to be two, but one is a mock sun. God is alone—but the devil, he is far from being alone; he sees a great deal of company; he is legion. I am no more lonely than a single mullein or dandelion in a pasture, or a bean leaf, or sorrel, or a horse-fly, or a bumblebee. I am no more lonely than a weathercock, or the north star, or the south wind, or an April shower, or a January thaw, or the first spider in a new house.

然而它那一湾天蓝的湖水里有的却是天使的纯净,而非魔鬼的忧郁。太阳是孤独的,虽然时而在阴郁的天气里会出现两个太阳,但其中之一为幻日;上帝是孤独的——魔鬼才从不孤单,他永远不乏伙伴,因从他者甚众。比起牧场上的一朵毛蕊花、一朵蒲公英、一片豆叶、一束酢浆草、一只牛虻或大黄蜂,我并不比它们孤独;比起风标、北极星、南风、四月春雨、一月融雪,或者新房中的第一只蜘蛛,我也并不比它们孤独。

Word Study

solitude /'s?l?tju?d/ n. 独处

He enjoyed his moments of solitude.

suffice /s?'fa?s/ v. 足夠;满足

It suffices to comfort her with only a few words.

pasture /'pɑ?st??(r)/ n. 牧场

The cows are out now, grazing in the pasture.

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