Many people are constantly waiting for their life to start. “When Im older Ill do this.” and“In a few years Ill do that.” They think the life they are experiencing is boring and meaningless.

Who has never viewed himself/herself as worthless and unattractive？

In others eyes， you were always“the funny one”and became loud and over confident to mask what you were actually feeling， but few people know about the way you felt.

All of us may suffer with depression and frustration， lose guidance and support， need aids physically， emotionally， or spiritually.

Just think like this way：

“This too shall pass.”

Horrible feelings I am feeling will eventually go away.

I need to stop feeling so sorry for myself and actually want to change. I am an incredibly lucky person who have come from a family who love and support my whole life.

I had to be the one to make the decision to change my way of thinking.

All the good things and all the wonderful people in my life would pass eventually too. While I am feeling miserable， my life is still going on and I am missing out on appreciating those precious moments.

We all have horrible things happen to us that will affect each of us differently.

The important thing to remember is that our problems arent what defines us. What defines us is how we deal with what has happened to us; how we change the way we think about it.

We can either let it become us or we can use our new-found wisdom to change the little bit of world around us all.

Theres something much bigger than us and our problems. It is always important to remember that there is always someone who is in a position much worse than our own.

Nevertheless， I am well on the way to becoming the person I want to be and I have goals and expectations of myself. I am now aware that my life has started.

It started years ago and its not nearly over yet. Its happening right now. Yours is too.

人生有兩大选择：要么接受现实，要么接受改变现状的责任。——丹尼斯·魏特利

很多人都在等待自己生命的新起点，总说“等我长大一点，我会做这个”又或者“几年后，我要做那个”。他们觉得现在的生活很乏味无趣。

谁不曾觉得自己是毫无价值、毫不吸引人的人？

在别人的眼中，你一直是一个“很有趣的人”。你用大声喧嚣和过度的自信来掩盖自己真正的感觉，别人并不知道你的感受。

我们所有人都会经历挫折和沮丧，失去指引和支持，需要物质、情感和精神上的帮助。

请这么想：

这一切都会过去的。

所有的恐惧不安终有一天会烟消云散。

不应再自怨自艾，而要切切实实地谋求改变。能有一个爱护和支持自己的家庭，你已经是世上非常幸运的人了。

只有你可以决定自己想法的转变。

在你生命中所有好的事情、身边很棒的人，同样会有离你而去的一天。当自己沉溺于痛苦之中，而生命的时间漏斗仍不停流转，那你将错过享受那些珍贵时刻。

每个人都会遇上些可怕的事情，但那些事对不同的人的影响却不尽相同。

重要的是，你要记住，我们遇到的问题不能决定我们会成为什么样的人。能决定我们成为什么样的人的，是我们处理问题的方法，以及我们对待问题的方式。

我们可以放任自流，也可以利用我们发现的新智慧改变我们所处的小世界。

比我们自身和我们所遇到的问题还重要的事情大有所在。切勿忘记永远有人比我们遭遇的更糟糕。

然而，我们有自己的目标和期待，并在自己选择的人生道路上很好地前进着。我们必须从现在起意识到属于自己的人生其实已经开始。

我的人生在好久之前已经开始了，而且还没结束。现在还是进行时。你的也一样。