编译/孙开元

Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

送给他人一个惊喜，并且诚心诚意。

Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

莫笑他人白日梦，无梦之人少出息。

In disagreements， fight fairly. No name calling.

争论时要公平讲理，但不要出口伤人。

Don't judge people by their relatives.

不要拿他人的亲戚朋友来评判对方。

Talk slowly， but think quickly.

脑子快一些好，嘴巴慢一些好。

Remember that great love and achievements involve great risk.

记住：伟大的爱和成就一定离不开巨大的风险。

When you lose， don't lose the lesson.

当你失败时，不要失去教训。

Respect for others； Responsibility for all your actions.

尊重自己、尊重他人、为自己的行为负责。

In disagreements with loved ones， deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

和你所爱的人争吵时就事论事，不要扯出过去。

Once a year， go someplace you've never been before.

每年去一个你从没去过的地方。

Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

评价你的成功，要看你为了得到它而失去了什么。

（兰明芳摘自孙开元的新浪博客2013年2月19日）